it ok to not be ready
Please spread this shit like wildfire. People go on and sit through the whole experience and they’re uncomfortable because they just want to please their partner and they don’t tell them that they want to stop because they are not ready. It’s okay not to be ready.
i wish someone had told me this kind of stuff when i was younger… ಠ_ಠ
I REALLY REALLY WANT TO POINT OUT that this person’s partner first stopped & checked in when they saw physical discomfort, not when they heard verbal discouragement. This is so so important: a good partner will be paying attention to how you’re responding and they should factor that in! “Well, you didn’t say anything” is a SHITTY NO-GOOD EXCUSE. It’s ok not to be ready and it’s ok to back out but it’s so important to pay attention to each other!
Also, if you are having sex with someone and you put out those “I’m not into this and I wanna stop” signals, and they ignore them, I highly recommend you rethink having sex with them ever again. Also just generally being around them. Because when a sexual partner sees your discomfort and doesn’t check in, they are selfish at best and dangerous at worst.
I need to say, since no one has said it so far in this particular thread of commentary: Saying “I’m sorry” is okay, but please be aware that it’s a part of internalized oppression that tells us that if we’re not sexually available to a person, then we must have wronged them. This is not true. Anyone can withdraw consent at any point and you don’t have to apologize for it because it is absolutely your right.
condoms are doing it right
Me on the internet: your hot we should make out
Me in real life: hi
This is so great
Look at the details! The dog bowl says ‘Loki’, and the license plate is “ASG4RD” or Asgard.
It’s cut off in the gif, but the mom’s coffee cup has a Stark label on it.
I still declare that the best part of this is that she’s a little girl cosplaying Thor. :3
I agree with the headcanon that Thor was just casually flying past at the time and saw this little girl and thought, “This young maiden wishes to emulate her hero. I SHALL ASSIST HER!” and then makes lighting shoot out of her hammer so that the car explodes and flies off with the biggest grin on his face.
Can I just….. IF A LITTLE GIRL CAN FUCKING IDENTIFY WITH THOR TO THE POINT THAT SHE WANTS TO BE HIM, ANY GIRL, DESPITE THEIR RACE OR ETHNICITY CAN IDENTIFY WITH ANY DISNEY PRINCESS AND BE THEM.
What not to say to goth girls and other alternative folk + some snarky answers to stupid questions. I’m sorry, this video is so absurdly goofy haha! Hopefully its not too annoying, and I’d love to hear everyone else’s stories of the annoying things that get asked/said.:) As always I will love you forever if you remember to like, comment, subscribe and reblog.^_^ Thanks!
If you don’t love Javert you’re wrong
Easter is coming up! And it’s a terrible time for pet store bunnies!
Rabbits are marketed as “easy”, short-lived, starter pets, especially during the Easter holidays, but that couldn’t be farther from the truth! A healthy, well cared for bunny can live just as long as the average cat or dog- 10-12 years!
What’s more, they have more complex needs than a cat or a dog. Rabbits are prey animals and do not behave or show affection in the same way as predators like cats and dogs; they don’t deal well with being outside-only animals; they can get sad if they’re on their own and don’t receive enough attention; and if they’re bought as a male and female couple, they can start reproducing from as early as 5-6 months of age, and they can carry multiple litters at the same time!
They have a specialised diet (NOT carrots!), need a specialised living area (unless you want all your things to get chewed up!), and they need specialised vets! Caring for them costs as much as caring for a dog!
They’re a big responsibility!
BUNNY SAFETY SIGNAL BOOST BECAUSE BUNNIES ARE IMPORTANTThis goes for chicks too! They don’t stay small and fluffy!
Respect bunnies people, use your heads! Do research before you adopt ANY pet! You are the sole caretaker for any animal you bring into your home! They depend on you for food and care and love and everything else! And don’t buy pets for holidays! Buy pets to love them and enrich your life!
When you get buns, buns rule you, you do not rule the buns. If you want buns, DO YOUR RESEARCH. THEY ARE -NOT- EASY PETS. -note- I have two of them and they are my children don’t even look at me right now, this is so important. I WISH PEOPLE UNDERSTOOD.
Ah Jason, he is a total legend. Yes, our first ever meeting in the lobby of a Belfast hotel did start by him rugby tackling me to the floor yelling “WIFEY!!”
- Emilia Clarke
I AM SO BEYOND FUCKING DONE
HE’S FUCKING HUGE HOW DID SHE SURVIVE
She is the Khaleesi, and that makes her invincible.